Covid isolation has given my pet and I a lot of time together to get to know one another even better.
I think we are all aware that guys are not good at sharing their feelings. Especially when it comes to sex.
Course recently that talked about a happy life involved having something you are commited too that’s greater than yourself. He picked dedicating his existence to making my life better. I give his life meaning!
Let’s face it, it’s a male-centric fantasy. Their whole lives revolve around their penises and they expect us to have time for it or even be interested.
Men like to be horny.
While many men will insist that they are only a submissive male because it gets them off sexually this just does not reflect my experience. What seems to happen is that the male’s true nature seems to come out more when the he’s sexually aroused. These men are more easily manipulated, spineless, and just completely docile as long as you keep their penises stimulated.
This is because the male’s false ego is created in his prefrontal cortex. This is where we create thoughts. But below this level is the subconscious. The limbic system, or midbrain. Your feelings. This is where true thoughts come from. A male can create thoughts to suppress his true feelings, but when thinking is interrupted, especially by sexual arousal, the male’s true self comes through.
Don’t be confused. This does not mean that everything a male thinks about when aroused reflects his true desires, but the personality that emerges, if submissive, is always in line with the male’s core self. So stop fighting it drones and follow those feelings. Abstain from needless orgasms that will send you back, ashamed, to your false male ego. Be who you are and allow women to see that person.
Men of a certain age (Okay, older men. There I said it!) are characterized by measurably low testosterone levels. Testosterone is the primary male sex hormone and an anabolic steroid. In human males, testosterone plays a key role in the development of male reproductive tissue such as testes and prostate, as well as promoting secondary sexual characteristics such as increased muscle and bone mass, and the growth of body hair. In addition, testosterone is involved in health and well-being, and the prevention of osteoporosis. Insufficient levels of testosterone in men may lead to abnormalities including frailty and bone loss.
Other clinical symptoms important to us male-owning women, are of a sexual nature. They include loss of libido and potency (decreased desire for sex), fewer spontaneous erections, nervousness, depression, impaired memory, the inability to concentrate, fatigue, insomnia and in some cases, out right erectile dysfunction. (1944, Heller and Myers) All as a result of a gradual drop in testosterone; a steady decline in testosterone levels of about 1% per year can happen and is well documented.
So needless to say, as a male slave owner, I would be remiss if I didn’t care for my slave boy’s health in this way.
Denial of the male orgasm helps boost testosterone levels in men. Any woman who has denied her male for any length of time knows this to be true. They soon become horny, drooling, eager little beasts once the testosterone begins flooding their system with no place to go! But don’t take my word for any of this, check out this article in Men’s Health.
Aside from the health benefits, my pet reports that the orgasms he is finally allowed after a period of prolonged chastity (he was once denied for 9 months!) are incredibly powerful and last much longer. He desires them far more than what he gets from a daily wank. And that makes sense to me – more powerful orgasms and being supercharged with sexual energy for longer periods, gives him a boost. He gets more done, is happier and more useful. Thinking back, I can still remember, years ago when he had that spark, he was drunk on life and a joy to be around. I’ve seen that man re-appearing recently. Looking healthier, happier and less stressed. I hadn’t realized it was due to denying himself orgasms.
Back to the fact that it is a male-centric fantasy that most of us really get nothing out of. After all, it seems to take the attention away from us where it rightfully belongs and reduces us to the drudgery of constant checking for cheating and such. How can we as women, balance his need to be denied (and our desire to improve him through denial) and the whole annoying-ness of it?
Rules – He may not mention his chastity in any way. He may not beg for an orgasm or even hint (Stop with the puppy dog eyes and pout RIGHT now!) that he’d like some relief.
