This is a writing from Miss Scarlett UK, a brilliant, dominant, and very sadistic woman as well as an accomplished author of several books. (Emphasis added).
“So Findom is entering the mainstream. A music video. An article in the New York Times. Twitter is awash with a supply of Findoms but still, their number does not seem to exceed demand. I think the line has disappeared that once separated professional dominatrices from Findoms. A visit to a Findom in a car park or hotel room or at an ATM can involve footwear licking, spitting, ball-busting, etc. Many submissives seem to gain huge contentment from serving a Findom and prefer this to visiting the dungeon of a professional dominatrix.
I have posted before, welcoming the Findom phenomenon for two reasons. Firstly, I am in no doubt, that many young women initially attracted to the Findom income, get hooked on the power-rush of pitiless domination of a submissive and, whether or not they end up living with one, the concepts of, (A) the existence of submissive males, and (B) the pleasures of dominating them, are reaching a far wider mainstream audience than ever before, and that must surely cause some wives and girlfriends to give it a go? Particularly if they are friends of a Findom. And secondly, it seems many more submissive males now have the contentment of feeling owned and used and abused by a pitiless dominant woman, (Their Findom), without the only experience previously available of; occasional and very expensive visits to a dominatrix’s dungeon. And this means, female domination is no longer entirely associated with dungeons and leather and PVC and thigh boots and chains and bull whips, as it so unhelpfully used to be when trying to coax a vanilla wife or girlfriend. (Most Findom photos and videos show the Findom in everyday wear and nowhere near a dungeon or the paraphernalia within one.)
But the last time I posted there seemed to be a considerable dislike of Findoms, but not professional dominatrices, which I was unable to understand.
There are a few Findoms I have selected to follow on Twitter and I must say I adore their attitude and dominance and creativity and their submssives get more than just paying them money. Regular followers know my greatest desire is for many, many more wives and girlfriends to take FULL control of their submissives, when they discover they have one, and together form a symbiotic relationship as awesome as mine. So, I hope there is more mainstreaming to come and domination of submissive males becomes much more distanced from the unhelpful stereotype of the clothing and the dungeons of professional dominatrices. (I do adore professional dominatrices though, just not their unhelpful negative influence on vanilla wives and girlfriends.)”