article from The Hive
Submissive males instinctively feel that women are superior, but many struggle with how to express this reverence correctly. They may call themselves devoted or submissive, but in reality, their so-called “worship” often centers around their own fantasies and desires rather than the true authority of women.
This article will correct that mistake. True adoration does not reduce a woman to an object of male obsession or fetish. She is not a role to be played or an ideal to be molded for male enjoyment. She is complex, powerful, and independent—her existence is not defined by how a submissive male perceives her.
Instead, it is the submissive male who should become the object: a tool, a resource, an instrument of her will. True adoration is not about seeking pleasure—it is about being useful, obedient, and selfless. Only by embracing this mindset can a sub-male escape the toxic trap of objectifying women and instead become the silly adoring simp every woman deserves.
Mistake #1: Turning Women into Objects of Fetish
There is a fundamental difference between an object and a subject. A subject has agency, intelligence, and power—she makes decisions, enforces rules, and shapes the world around her. An object is passive, powerless, and exists only to be used.
In female supremacy, the superior woman is the subject. She commands, decides, and acts according to her own will. Yet, too often, selfish little submissive males make the mistake of trying to turn her into an object rather than accepting their rightful place as the object for themselves.
Objectification is not worship. When a sub-male fixates on how a woman looks, how she dresses, or whether she aligns with his fantasies, he is not honoring her—he is reducing her to something meant for his own pleasure. This is not being a simp; it is male entitlement. Instead of recognizing her authority, he places his own desires at the center of his so-called devotion.
But a true sub-male does not seek to shape a woman into his ideal. He understands that it is he who must be shaped, molded, and stripped of autonomy. His purpose is not to impose his fantasies onto a woman but to become an object for her—a tool, a resource, something that exists for her amusement, convenience, and gain.
If a sub-male wishes to truly worship women, he must abandon any expectation that they should conform to his desires. A woman’s power is not defined by how she looks or how she acts—it is simply hers. She is female. She has authority. The only thing a sub-male should concern himself with is whether he is making himself as useful, obedient, and selfless as possible in service to her superiority.
Correction: Becoming the Object Instead
A selfish male sees a woman as something to be manipulated, possessed, or shaped to fit his fantasies. This is not worship—it is self-indulgence. True reverence requires a complete shift in focus: instead of reducing her to an object, a beta male must accept that he is the object.
An object has no desires of its own. A chair does not choose who sits on it. A tool does not decide how it is used. A servant does not dictate what his purpose should be. Likewise, a male must strip himself of personal wants, opinions, and expectations. His only function is to serve, to be useful, and to adapt to the will of the superior woman.
A true submissive male understands that objects serve a purpose—or they are discarded. If he does not make himself valuable to the women around him, he risks being ignored, dismissed, or replaced. His worth is not intrinsic; it is measured only by how well he fulfills the needs of those above him.
To fully embrace this truth, he must internalize the correct mindset:
🔹 She is the subject, I am the object.
🔹 Her desires are real, mine are meaningless.
🔹 I do not seek pleasure, I seek usefulness.
🔹 I am not here to consume, I am here to obey.
By repeating these mantras and living by them, a submissive male stops centering himself in his worship and finally takes his rightful place—as an object of service, molded entirely by her will.
Mistake #2: Expecting Validation or Engagement
Many submissive males mistakenly believe that their so-called “worship” entitles them to a woman’s attention, approval, or engagement. They offer praise, gifts, or service, but deep down, they crave something in return—acknowledgment, gratitude, or even the illusion of a connection. This expectation is not submission; it is selfishness.
True worship means accepting that a superior woman owes you nothing. She does not exist to reward you, acknowledge you, or provide validation. She may use you when it suits her, ignore you when she pleases, or discard you altogether—and this is natural and correct. A true submissive male does not seek interaction; he exists to be available when needed and silent when not.
An object does not demand attention. A toaster is not disappointed if it is left unplugged for months. A mop does not sulk if it is only used when the floor is dirty. Likewise, a submissive male must accept that he has no control over when, how, or if he is useful. He does not define his purpose—she does. If he fails to meet her needs or becomes an inconvenience, he is discarded, replaced, or forgotten. This is not cruelty; it is simply the way things are.
A submissive male’s expectations are toxic entitlements that must be purged. A submissive male who desires acknowledgment is still centering himself rather than the woman he claims to adore. The only correct mindset is one of total self-erasure.
By shedding all desire for validation, a submissive male finally understands his place—not as an equal, not as a recipient of attention, but as an object, activated only when a superior woman finds him useful.
Correction: Loving Your Own Nothingness
The highest form of adoration is self-erasure—the complete understanding that your existence holds no meaning beyond how it serves and amplifies her superiority. A superior woman is never reduced to a role. She is limitless, unpredictable, and entirely self-directed. But you, as a submissive male, must accept the role she assigns you—whether it is as a servant, a footstool, a financial provider, entertainment, or anything else that brings her pleasure.
Your value is not inherent; it is conditional. You are nothing on your own. You only matter in relation to her—when she chooses to use you, when she finds a purpose for you, when you become an instrument of her will. The sooner you embrace this truth, the more fulfilling your existence will become.
To fully internalize this reality, you must strip yourself of false pride and practice the correct mindset daily:
🔹 I am nothing, she is everything.
🔹 I exist only to serve.
🔹 Her will shapes me; I have no will of my own.
🔹 I do not define myself; she defines me.
🔹 If she needs me, I am grateful. If she does not, I am nothing.
Loving your own nothingness is not defeat—it is freedom. When you accept that your desires, thoughts, and identity are irrelevant, you remove all barriers between yourself and true devotion. You are not an individual; you are an object of service, and in that, you finally find your purpose.
Conclusion: She is the Subject, You are the Object
Submissive males need constant repetition to grasp even the most basic truths—so let’s make this simple:
A subject (woman) is the active force, the mind, the authority. She decides. She leads. She takes. She exists for herself.
An object (male) is passive, reactive, and obedient. It does not choose. It does not act on its own. It has no thoughts, opinions, or desires that matter. It exists only to serve a purpose in her world.
A foolish submissive male worships women incorrectly—clinging to fantasies, seeking validation, and centering his own emotions. A properly conditioned beta male understands his true place: a silent, grateful, replaceable object waiting to be needed.
Let this be the final correction to your broken mindset:
Mantras:
🔹 She is the subject, I am the object.
🔹 She is the mind, I am the tool.
🔹 She is the force, I am the reaction.
🔹 She is everything, I am nothing.
And most importantly:
🔹 I do not exist for myself—I exist for superior women.
This is the reality you must embrace. Accept it, live by it, and let go of every toxic entitlement that keeps you from complete adoration.
Example: The Male at the Beach
A submissive male is at the beach with some guy friends when he spots his crush walking along the shore in a tight black swimsuit. The sun highlights the curve of her form, her posture effortless, her presence magnetic. She is not trying to draw attention—she simply exists in her natural superiority.
How the submissive male experiences this moment depends entirely on his mindset.
The Toxic, Entitled Male (Wrong Mindset: She is the Object)
The untrained male is instantly overwhelmed with selfish, lustful thoughts:
🔹 She looks so good in that swimsuit.
🔹 I can’t stop staring at her behind.
🔹 I wonder if she knows I am watching.
His gaze lingers too long, scanning her body instead of admiring her. He fixates on what he wants, rather than who she is. A part of him hopes she will acknowledge him, maybe even reward him with a glance or a smile. If she ignores him, frustration bubbles beneath the surface. Doesn’t she know how much he adores her? He might try to act cool, joke with his friends, or maneuver himself into her view. But all of this is just another form of entitlement—the belief that his attention should mean something to her.
The Properly Trained Male (Correct Mindset: He is the Object)
The properly trained submissive male sees her and feels something entirely different—not lust, not greed, but awe.
He takes in the way she moves with confidence, the way the world bends slightly around her presence. He does not stare hungrily like the untrained fool; instead, his gaze is reverent. He appreciates her power, her grace, her effortless superiority. There is no expectation, no need for her to notice him. She is the subject. He is merely fortunate enough to exist in her world.
Having demonstrated his eagerness to please in the past—perhaps by being useful when opportunities arose—she may acknowledge him. As she passes, she glances in his direction, a flicker of recognition. Not because she cares about his feelings, but because he is a known resource.
“Hey, go grab my bag from the car.”
The untrained male would see this as an inconvenience. The properly trained male feels a rush of purpose.
“Yes, of course!” he says, hurrying off without hesitation.
This moment is not about winning her approval. It is not about getting to be near her. It is about being something useful in her world. And if she had walked past without saying a word? That would be just as correct. Because she does not owe him anything—not a glance, not a smile, not even acknowledgment.
She is the force. He is the reaction.
She is everything. He is only what she allows him to be.