I will be the first to confess that I did not believe Ms. Renee Lane was real. In fact, when I originally started reading her book, I left it half finished because somewhere in the middle I concluded it was a jerk off fantasy written by a man under the pseudonym of a woman. If had to be.
Because real women don’t talk like that.
I’ve been around the kink world for decades, meeting pro-dommes, going to national events and private parties, and the kinky women I’ve met (and that’s a lot), even the dominant ones simply did not talk about their sexual arousal at torturing a man and such. Sure, they would spank or whip you, a few I know even have 24/7 D/s relationships. But even those seemed to be pretty loving couples for whom D/s was just an small riff in their relationship song. And only in male fantasy/male oriented fiction is the dominant woman bi-sexual with an equally sadistic lesbian lover. No, this was some guy’s fantasy porn and I put it aside unfinished.
Except it isn’t. Ms. Renee Lane is real. What is in her book… is real.
How do I know? I did my research. I’ve had private correspondence with her. I have even met her and Butler in person. But don’t take my word for it, just attend DomCon in New Orleans and you can introduce yourself to them as well.
And through Ms. Lane, I’ve met Goddess Viola Voltairine. A slave owner of two men, seeking to create her own harem of male servants. She also revels in female sexual sadistry. A self-proclaimed vampire, she cuts and feeds on her favorite boy Drum’s blood regularly.
And she is equally real.
Since then and thanks to Ms. Voltairine’s online courses, I have embarked on a study of feminism, matriarchy, and gynarchy and through that have discovered a whole new breed of empowered women who talk and act like men! They aren’t coy or try to be ‘mysterious’ about their desires, they are point blank. “This is what turns me on, this is my kink. Take it or just go.” They understand their power doesn’t come from catering to their males’ wants. They don’t need a whip or to wear fetish gear to get their way because they are not into WIITWD to cater to their husband or boyfriend’s kinks or for the money, they are in it because it turns them on to dominate and punish men and they are very open about it!
It used to be easy to tell the difference between a woman writing an ad or profile and a man catfishing as a woman, because women were coy and coquettish. They say a picture is worth a thousand words so – men post dick pics, women post a close-up of their manicured hands doing up a garter stay. Get it?
But not so with this new generation of empowered women. So much so that I can no longer differentiate between a male pretending to be a dominant woman, and an actual dominant woman!
And here’s the real kicker – Having a woman text you, “So, you wanna be tied up and ass fucked or what?” is… embarrassing, emasculating, dehumanizing. It makes you feel like your just a thing for her to use to get herself off and she isn’t really interested in you as a person. And once she has and is no longer in the mood to listen to your horny male speak, she’ll tell you that too. “Shut up. I’m busy right now.” *
Gee. I guess it’s just like women must have felt with us sexually aggressive men for centuries.
The tables are turning. Ms. Lane and Ms. Voltairine embody the new woman. In the end, I welcome these sexually dominant empowered women. You don’t need to guess what they want, they will tell you. You don’t need to wonder if they are ‘really into it’ or just catering to you for one reason or another, believe them, they aren’t. Their sexual fantasies are theirs and are just as twisted and evil as any man’s. And if you are lucky and work really, really hard to be a good boy for them, they might just include you in them!
* It really gives a whole different outlook on the term, “kept man”. You aren’t financially dependent on her or anything, you are just ‘kept’ waiting around for her fun when she wants you!