excerpted from: Nicole Diamond , author of FLRErotica
Many couples shy away from Findom because of the potential dangers, but for those interested in trying it there is great potential for transferal of power from him to her. What most don’t realize is that effective financial domination doesn’t even require the domme to take her slaves money: all that is necessary is for her to restrict and control his own use of it.
There are many ways to play with this – I already outlined my favorite idea below (The LockBox). In the most extreme versions, his salary is transferred straight to her bank account and all the assets are under her name. But findom could also be as simple as having him present her with receipts for everything he spends money on. From there, she can order him to reduce spending in some areas.
Another way I like to financially control my sub is to order him to save what he can on his paltry allowance, and when he’s reached the goal I set for him he is to spend those savings on a gift for me.
Some dommes like to have their subs pay a token ‘tribute’ to them, or tax their subs for failing to obey.
For those more serious about financial control, the domme might have sole access to the main bank account, transferring an allowance to her sub’s checking account. Then, depending on his behavior she might reserve the right to reduce (or add) to his ‘fun money’, potentially depriving him of pleasures or vices as she sees fit.
The Lockbox
Taking financial control in 4 steps:
- Buy a small lockbox with a padlock for which you hold the only key.
- Take all of his bank cards away from him.
- Using his own bank card, withdraw a certain amount of his money and store it all together in the lockbox.
- Allow him his money on your terms!
In this digital age, it may be worth downloading a parental control app on his phone to keep him from accessing his bank and ‘cheating’ by paying for things that way.
Once you have him on an allowance (perhaps storing $1,000 in the lockbox and giving him $100 a week), there are all kinds of possibilities to control him.
- Take some of his money out of the box in front of him and spend it on yourself (or even put it in a savings account – it’s all the same to him.) Fill up your car, take a friend for dinner, etc.
- Take away some allowance as punishment.
- Have him beg for his allowance.
- Have him perform services or chores for you in order to earn more from the lockbox.
This method doesn’t require him to delete his accounts or transfer his income to you, yet despite this he will become dependent on you financially. You’ll find the key to the lockbox fits neatly on the ring beside the key to his chastity device.
Feel the power!