Needs

by Mistress Domino

“Relationships of this nature are very intense, powerful, and are very strong relationships. I feel they are much more intense than any straight relationship. There’s a trust, a need, a desire, a fulfillment, a responsibility, a devotion, a bond that just isn’t the same in many other relationships.

As long as you keep the relationship in prospective and don’t let those feelings of love get in the way of dominating him or beating his ass, it will work.

Many Mistresses have told me stories and their feelings became stronger and stronger for a slave, they found it harder to dominate them, harder to ‘hurt’ them. Even if the slave was into pain! This is the biggest mistake a Mistress can make in this sort of relationship. Never go soft on them! Sure, you can love them, but never let them forget who and what they are. Your property! Your slave! You must realize that both of you have needs. He needs to be dominated and you need to dominate. This is the way the two of you are together.

The more your slave loves you the more he will give of himself, the more he will endure for you, the more he will adore and devote himself to you. You however, must never loose sight of your responsibility to him either. If at some point you can’t fulfill his needs, he will go elsewhere no matter how much he loves you.

Do what you want – what makes you happy and I assure you his happiness will follow. You ultimately want to condition him to want the things that you want him to want. Condition-repetition-reward-discipline.”